Friday, November 30, 2018

UNDERSTANDING LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

LAWS OF LOVE 

Any successful relationship has nothing To do with LOVE.
love does not guarantee success in relationships
Love brings happiness but it does not make relationship works.
You might being wondering why I say love does not make relationship success but that's the truth because 50percent of divorced couples today love themselves so wat actually make them divorce each other.
The only thing that makes them divorce each other is because they lack KNOWLEDGE 
So the only thing that can make a relationship works is knowledge. Knowledge of knowing the different emotional needs of each other it will help go a long way in your relationships.
Don't get married because you love someone, love is not the problem but knowledge to function in life.
Any successful marriage you see today is as a result of the application of knowledge not the application of LOVE.
The most misunderstood element of relationship nowadays is love.

WILL OF LOVE
Love is not emotions, love is a choice.
"Love is the response to understanding the value of a thing".
The more value you put on something the more indepth you want to take care of it. value is measured by what you are willing to spend on something. If someone claims to love you they need to measure on what they can give to you.
Love is a force generated by decisions.

So take note you have to get an indepth knowledge about yourselves before you think of marriage don't just go and marry  because you love his or her physical looks.
Remember wisdom is profiting to direct
And he said in his word my people perish because of lack of knowledge.
So see knowledge as a fuel to your relationship. Avoid ignorance

Monday, November 12, 2018

RELATIONSHIP ACCOUNT

RELATIONSHIP ACCOUNT 
Power and honour flows through relationships and the relationship you pursue defines the kind of reward that you will receive. Relationship can be started in a day but it takes time and process to grow.
NOTE
YOU CANNOT GROW RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE AN IMPATIENT PERSON.
The stupidity of breakups comes to reveal the spirit of impatience.
The relationship you do not nurture will not mature. Quality relationship requires hardwork and does not happen by chance but by choice.
Any relationship you see working is because of the two personalities involved in it,  if you partner is not making it work I advice you make it work yourself.
Relationship are like accounts you cannot withdraw from an account where you have not deposited anything. Relationship can deliver if you need a progress from any relationship you need to deposit in an account.
Healthy relationship operates LIFE BANK ACCOUNT (EBA)
UNDERSTAND
Relationship are made up of individuals with emotional attachment.  Everybody comes into a relationship with a kind of account.
Emotional account
Spiritual account
Financial account.
If you want to have a meaningful relationship with you spouse learn to study the account he or she needs at a particular time inorder to be able to fuel it well.

"A woman is n improvement to a man's life because the moment she gets involved in the man's life his life's improved.


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UNDERSTANDING SINGLEHOOD

The single years are the foundation for a glorious and secure future. The most important time in your life is your unmarried time.

WHAT IS THE WORD SINGLE?
*it means whole,  distinct, and a successful individual capable of initiative and having the capacity to enrich and contribute to another's life.
SINGLE MEANS
separate (Distinct from others)
Unique (bringing something no one has)
Whole ( Complete within yourself)
It is satanic for any LADY to feel you are not complete because you are not MARRIED.
Never confuse being unmarried with being single
Unmarried is a state and singleness is a disposition
SINGLESS IS GOD'S ORIGINAL FOUNDATION
You can detect  if you will get a successful marriage by your quality of singleness.
It is more important to check a person single life before you get married to them.

NOTE
Age does not qualify you for marriage knowledge does.

CONCLUSION
it is okay to be single but it is not okay to be alone.  Singleness is the most important stage of a man/woman's life.
Focus on Developing yourself and refining yourself.