FACTS TO KNOW ABOUT DATING

• You only have to be you. People will go out of their way to change themselves to please someone else, they will change their clothing style, their hair, their hobbies, their likes and dislikes. If you want to work hard focus on finding out who you are then stay that way. 
•  Avoid people that cheat. If they cheated on your friend they will likely cheat on you. Immature people lose interest fast. 
• Every person you meet or even fall Inlove with does not need to be your life partner. 
• Do not compromise you values to make someone else happy. A person worth loving would not ask you to do that. 
• Love without fear.  But be wise to someone that does not give you back what you offer in return. 
•  Friendship is the greatest basis for an actual romantic relationship. Make sure the person you fall in love with is a good friend. 
• Pay attention to how someone makes you feel when you  are with him or her. A great relationship can give you energy is another source of companionship and support and makes you feel good about yourself. 
• There will always be someone prettier, kinder, smarter, more taller, funnier and richer. Stop competing and just be happy with the marvelous person you are. *
•  Everyone makes mistake but some should not be tolerated. Figure out what you can live with and what you can’t live with then stick  with your decision. 
•  Don’t send angry Emails and texts. Your anger will fade but emails and texts live forever. 

Love is the response to understanding the value of a thing. 

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HABIT OF A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP

Every happy relationship needs two strong companions who are willing to go the extra mile and never give up.
Here are the habits of a happy relationship

ENDS FIGHT QUICKLY
Arguments happen in every relationship when two people are together they tend to fight very now and then. As a partner is your duty to know when it is time for you to calm your partner down. Good partners don't stay fighting they resolve their issue quickly.

ONE ON ONE TIME
Good partners always make sure they spend enough alone time with theirselves its fun being together once in a while. Healthy relationship tend to get stronger with spending more special time together.

GROOM EACH OTHER
Good partners are those who work on each oother, make each other stronger and groom each other to make them the best they can be. Grooming each other is one of the most strongest sign of a relationship.

TRUST WITHOUT DOUBTS

The best partners are those who have complete trust and faith in each other. Once you learn to trust your partner in everything you have you will get the same in return and you will live a happy and healthy love life.

RESPECT EACH OTHER
There is no love without first developing mutual respect.  The best partners respect each other in every meaning of the word.you both are individuals, you have your own unique way of living give each other as much respect as possible. Respect the choices they make as the respect urs.

LOTS OF SUPPORT
When you say you are Inlove with someone you are making a huge statement you are saying you are their everything. That you will be with time both in good and bad times. Good relationships is all about support especially blind support

NO COMPETITION
I have seen so many relationships die down because of a certain competitive element that created between them. Keep this in your mind there I no competition between you two. You live each other and you support each other through thick and thin. The best partner are those who know how awesome their partner are and they brag about them.

LISTEN TRUTHFULLY
They are genuinely interested in listening to one another and give valuable input that actually helps them. Bad partners are those who fake to listen and just say AHAN to everything said to them.
This are some little healthy habits you can apply daily into your relationships to make it stronger and grow healthier.
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UNDERSTANDING LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

LAWS OF LOVE 

Any successful relationship has nothing To do with LOVE.
love does not guarantee success in relationships
Love brings happiness but it does not make relationship works.
You might being wondering why I say love does not make relationship success but that's the truth because 50percent of divorced couples today love themselves so wat actually make them divorce each other.
The only thing that makes them divorce each other is because they lack KNOWLEDGE 
So the only thing that can make a relationship works is knowledge. Knowledge of knowing the different emotional needs of each other it will help go a long way in your relationships.
Don't get married because you love someone, love is not the problem but knowledge to function in life.
Any successful marriage you see today is as a result of the application of knowledge not the application of LOVE.
The most misunderstood element of relationship nowadays is love.

WILL OF LOVE
Love is not emotions, love is a choice.
"Love is the response to understanding the value of a thing".
The more value you put on something the more indepth you want to take care of it. value is measured by what you are willing to spend on something. If someone claims to love you they need to measure on what they can give to you.
Love is a force generated by decisions.

So take note you have to get an indepth knowledge about yourselves before you think of marriage don't just go and marry  because you love his or her physical looks.
Remember wisdom is profiting to direct
And he said in his word my people perish because of lack of knowledge.
So see knowledge as a fuel to your relationship. Avoid ignorance

RELATIONSHIP ACCOUNT

RELATIONSHIP ACCOUNT 
Power and honour flows through relationships and the relationship you pursue defines the kind of reward that you will receive. Relationship can be started in a day but it takes time and process to grow.
NOTE
YOU CANNOT GROW RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE AN IMPATIENT PERSON.
The stupidity of breakups comes to reveal the spirit of impatience.
The relationship you do not nurture will not mature. Quality relationship requires hardwork and does not happen by chance but by choice.
Any relationship you see working is because of the two personalities involved in it,  if you partner is not making it work I advice you make it work yourself.
Relationship are like accounts you cannot withdraw from an account where you have not deposited anything. Relationship can deliver if you need a progress from any relationship you need to deposit in an account.
Healthy relationship operates LIFE BANK ACCOUNT (EBA)
UNDERSTAND
Relationship are made up of individuals with emotional attachment.  Everybody comes into a relationship with a kind of account.
Emotional account
Spiritual account
Financial account.
If you want to have a meaningful relationship with you spouse learn to study the account he or she needs at a particular time inorder to be able to fuel it well.

"A woman is n improvement to a man's life because the moment she gets involved in the man's life his life's improved.


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UNDERSTANDING SINGLEHOOD

The single years are the foundation for a glorious and secure future. The most important time in your life is your unmarried time.

WHAT IS THE WORD SINGLE?
*it means whole,  distinct, and a successful individual capable of initiative and having the capacity to enrich and contribute to another's life.
SINGLE MEANS
separate (Distinct from others)
Unique (bringing something no one has)
Whole ( Complete within yourself)
It is satanic for any LADY to feel you are not complete because you are not MARRIED.
Never confuse being unmarried with being single
Unmarried is a state and singleness is a disposition
SINGLESS IS GOD'S ORIGINAL FOUNDATION
You can detect  if you will get a successful marriage by your quality of singleness.
It is more important to check a person single life before you get married to them.

NOTE
Age does not qualify you for marriage knowledge does.

CONCLUSION
it is okay to be single but it is not okay to be alone.  Singleness is the most important stage of a man/woman's life.
Focus on Developing yourself and refining yourself.